Renew the passion and intimacy in your relationship without having to go to couples therapy!
DR. ERICA HAS BEEN FEATURED IN:
Deep down you believe that you and your partner have what it takes to achieve this!
Somewhere along the way, âlife happenedâ and your sex life got pushed to the back burner.
You want to feel closer and more connected to your partner.
You want sex to feel intimate, hot, and satisfying for both of you.
But, truth be told, youâre stuck in a rut!
You're desperately trying to communicate how you feel to your partner.
Racking your brain to get back to how it felt when you began your relationship.
But at the end of each day, one or both of you is taking the other for granted and you're definitely not doing the things you used to do during courtship.
Thereâs almost no passion. Maybe very little connection.
And frankly, thereâs not much left in your tank.
You're wishing you had access to something to tell you where you guys are going wrong, and how to get back on track.
Something with clear steps to follow for sex that feels intimate, connecting, playful, and pleasurable with your partner.
Well, itâs time for...
The licensed psychologist, couples and sex therapist behind Bringing Sexy Back!
Iâm all about helping you have a more satisfying relationship with your partner, sexually and otherwise!
Because what happens outside of the bedroom affects what happens IN the bedroom, and vice versa. By addressing both, we get the spark back!
I have helped tens of thousands of women all over the world create truly satisfying sex lives and relationships, and I would love to help you next.
Whether you have been together for 30 years or are starting a new relationship, you are in the right place.
I have all the tools and resources you need no matter what stage of your relationship you are in.
And, hereâs what I know about youâŚ
You are clearly motivated and want better for yourself and your partner (otherwise you wouldnât be reading this!).
You have amazing love and caring for your partner, and youâve been resilient through the ups and downs.
And, your relationship has MASSIVE potential butâŚ
After all, this is why so many relationships end without reaching their sexual potential.
People lack clarity on what to do next.
They struggle with confidence because nothing theyâve tried has worked.
They donât know how to have a conversation with their partners about âneedsâ and âwantsâ in a way that draws their partner in, and not pushes them away.
Intimacy and a great sexual relationship aren't just luck, they're a process of getting everyone in the relationship aligned.
Bringing Sexy Back was created by me, a doctor of psychology with 10+ years of experience as a sex and relationship therapist who knows exactly what it takes to dust off your sex life and make it sizzle again!
Follow my 3 Bâs framework and it will guide you from taking each other for granted to emotionally connected and communicating effectively about sex and intimacy.
Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for over 30 years, The 3 Bâs framework helps you figure out what your next steps should be.
The confidence and skills to ask your partner for what you want without alienating them or having them shut down.
Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together forever, the 3 Bâs framework...
LESSON
Bringing Sexy Back is about reigniting the spark of excitement and desire in your relationship.
This is for anyone in any type of relationship who wants to make it better -- monogamous or poly or anywhere in between, any combination of genders, any age, married or not. You just need to be in a relationship where you want to love each other the best way you can. Getting the spark back is about a conscious decision and set of actions to take to have a better relationship. Weâll define what YOU mean by a better relationship and set goals for what you want your relationship to be.
LESSON
A strong bond is the foundation of any lasting relationship. It allows you to explore and risk knowing that you have a safe place to come back to. It is the foundation of trust, without which you canât have true intimacy. In this lesson, weâll discuss what makes for a strong bond and assess how you and your partner are feeling about your own bond.
LESSON
Researchers can predict with a high level of accuracy whether a couple will be happy and stay together, or be unhappy and separate, based on watching their interactions years earlier.
Takeaway -- the time to pay attention to your bond is NOW. Weâll discuss the main things that bruise or break bonds, and the essential steps to building or rebuilding them.
LESSON
Healthy relationships are a dance between closeness and space. Desire requires some breathing room. Rekindling or maintaining a spark requires each of us having a spark within ourselves, and seeing it in each other. We can only do that with a healthy distance between us. This lesson will explore the balance between closeness and distance in your relationship, and what needs attention.
LESSON
When it comes to your sex life, we need to know where things are going well (high five) and what needs improvement, in order to know where to focus our attention. Itâs important to know your needs and priorities -- and your partnerâs, if applicable -- in order to make you both happy!
This lesson will help you identify whatâs good and what needs attention *specifically* in the bedroom. Be prepared to blush and speak freely. đ
LESSON
This part is simple but not necessarily easy: If you donât know what you like or want, you canât be satisfied and your sex life will be underwhelming. Here weâll talk about two important skills -- sexual self-awareness and sexual communication -- and how to master them so you and your partner can let the sparks fly in the bedroom.
LESSON
What we prioritize in our relationships grows, and what we donât prioritize gets neglected. Intention and prioritization are the keys to a lasting connection. Here weâll work on setting an intention for your relationship and sex life, and Iâll share strategies that I use with my own clients to ensure that your love life remains a high priority.
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BEYOND
Bringing sexy back is a day to day, lifelong decision, not âset it and forget it.â Maintaining the spark requires intention and prioritization of each other and the tools we learned here. This part will help you solidify what you learned and changed in the previous 7 weeks and how to maintain that progress and keep moving forward.
Bonus 1
This is an exclusive online community with access to:
Bonus 2
A guided online course with EVERYTHING you need to learn to have orgasms every time (with or without your partner) because you deserve it too!
This guided online program includes 10 video modules, a workbook, and audio pleasure sessions walking you through each step of Dr. Erica's F.A.S.T. Orgasm Method framework.
Here's what my proven program The Big O Masterclass can do for you:
Yes. However, at this point I am not sure when the program will re-open again. It's going to be many months from now at the earliest. After this initial Foundersâ access offer expires and the doors open again, you can expect the investment into Bringing Sexy Back! to be significantly more. There is no better time to join than right now.
Weâll have a private facebook group for the live training calls. All you have to do is be logged into Facebook and visit the group page at the scheduled time, and youâll see the live video and will be able to comment and interact during the call. If youâre not a member of Facebook, you can create a dummy account just for this course, and delete it afterward.
After the live calls, the videos will be uploaded to the memberâs area of our website where youâll be able to watch them on your own schedule.
Itâs great if both partners are involved because then you have a shared understanding of the material, BUT youâll still get huge benefits even if only one of you decides to do the course. Youâll gain your own understanding of your sexual relationship that you can use to make changes on your end, which will inevitably affect your partner as well.
Nope! You can do one lesson a week, or every two weeks, or every month, or whatever works for your schedule. The course can be completely self-paced.
HOWEVER, if you want to participate in the live calls and go through the course together on the live schedule, youâll want to make time weekly for the lessons and homework.
You can have access for as long as you want, so thereâs no deadline to meet. You can go at your own pace, revisit lessons when needed, and even do it again if you want to. Thereâs no schedule to stick to or any cohort to keep up with.
Yep! The course is designed to be inclusive of any couple who wants to examine and improve their sex life, not just straight couples or people in monogamous or âtraditionalâ relationships.
You and I (plus the other women and couples) meet live each week, creating a strong atmosphere of commitment that helps lead to your success. The transformation in your relationship only works if you are dedicated to the process. I have worked hard to keep the price of this program low (a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy), and you get instant access to my signature women's orgasm training program, the Big O Masterclass, that normally sells for $497. For these reasons, Iâm not offering refunds for this program, but I do guarantee that the information and exercises that weâll cover have helped many, many of my own clients over the years, and I am confident they will help you too.
Yes! Sex doesnât have to mean intercourse, and I know that many couples donât have intercourse for a variety of reasons. This course is to understand and improve the sex life that YOU have, whatever that includes.
No! Sex is a living, breathing, evolving part of a relationship. Most couples at some point hit a roadblock or transition in their sexual relationship that requires some adjustment or re-setting. And sometimes you just want to improve on something thatâs already pretty good! Signing up for the course just means that youâre proactive and you care about your sex life, nothing more.